I have a hard time not feeling guilty even if I didn't do anything wrong. I was seeing a girl for the past couple of months. I ended it a couple of weeks ago. I wasn't a jerk. I said what I thought honestly but nicely. She seemed to take it well and actually to somewhat be in agreement. Then the other night someone told me that she had in fact been pretty upset. I didn't do anything wrong and people's feeling always get hurt in when this happens, but I feel pretty bad anyway. I'm not going to call her, I don't think. It's best just left alone - ala ripping off band-aids, etc.